
What a weekend.
Delinda's Memorial is over now. I have so many things to say but at this point on a Monday morning all I can do is offer some observations.
Some people can do more in a short life than others do in a century.
People are amazingly hard working and loving.
The power of positive thinking and energetic tackling of problems can produce incredible results.
Some people will use anything, even a Memorial, for self promotion.
That fact disgusts me.
Delinda loved to bring people together and promote the wonderful things about SL.
The world would be a far better place if more people were like that instead of concentrating on whatever the fuck Linden Lab is up to on a daily basis.
Focusing on a positive person for a while makes the complaints of people with constant complaints feel like fucking annoying complaints.
I really have a problem taking credit for anything, even when I deserve some credit.
I maybe should take a lesson from the self promoters, although using a Memorial to try to get a job or sell your stuff is disgusting.
Getting the worst flu of your life the week before a massive event that happens to fall the weekend before Christmas is a very bad idea.
Especially when you are having a RL Boxing Day party and expect oh about 75 people in your home very soon.
Holy Shit.
I have to go to a RL Funeral today because, you know, there isn't enough sadness around me already.
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To Delinda's RL family: I hope her SL Memorial showed you how much we loved your Denise. I hope there is some comfort in that for you. I know there is nothing that we can say or do that eases your pain but we would if we could. Thank you for sharing her with us and with the world.
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I normally don't name names on this blog because I am afraid I will forget someone or offend. This time I am going to name names. If I leave you out or hurt you I apologize in advance. I am human and have been sick and grieving. So, yanno.
Angie, Autumn, Fanci, Free, LaDonna, Nicci, Cellandra, Tangle, Oliver, Nekololi, Berry, Paisley, OhMy, SuperDave, Bliss, Baldi, BeeJee, Zak and Kat, Kit, Beth, Lorin, Saraine, my dear friend Crap, my partner Zha, all the people who live, work and sail at Sailors Cove, every person who performed and those who wanted to perform but could not do so, to ever person who came and stayed at the Memorial for hours, and those who only were able to come for a short time, to those of you who wanted to come but were not able to be there, to every person who tweeted, plurked and blogged, to those of you who were fortunate enough to know Delinda and to those of you who missed that chance - thank you from the bottom of my heart. You all proved to me what makes Second Life wonderful. You are all the reason I continue to log in, still, after all these years.
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Delinda, I hope we did you proud.